I do not permit self pity ever. I don't care what your situation is, I don't believe in excuses and what is the point of wasting your time and my time. I've noticed that the most prevalent version of self pity is now declaring loneliness, especially in the younger generation. Some people say they do this just for attention and just to have someone to say "oh no your not alone, you have me". Which of course is attention seeking but even if their only motive was to get attention these people all have the same reason for doing so. They have enough self pity to publicly showcase it. But are we ever truly alone or are we just wallowing. Wallowing in our own deficiencies and screw- ups. But what does that do, make you feel even more depressed and alone. So why even go there in the first place, you shouldn't let yourself wallow. Because you could always choose to look in the bright side of things, but you choose to be cynical instead. You have made your own decisions and those decisions dictate if you do screw-up or if your going to do something positive with what your given. You chose weather you use it to your full advantage. If you don't, sucks to suck doesn't it. So if you choose to be cynical and depressed about everything life throws at you, go ahead. But please stop posting it on Facebook because no one cares and everyone could be wasting there time on much more important things.
Also how dare you say your alone in the first place. No one is every truly alone. Even if you do not have any family or friends. You are never truly alone. Passing people on the street you could effect them and that's all that matters. You are only truly alone when you have not effected any one, ever. If you where kept away from all human contact for your whole life then you could possibly say you where alone. But if you are sitting here right now, reading this you have interacted with people in your life. Meaning you aren't alone. You just existing, technically you could not be alone. If you never talked to anyone in your entire life you are still not alone. If you have ever made someone think about you even for the slightest of moments, you are not alone. So I'm sure everyone who is living, has had some sort of human contact, so I'm pretty sure your not alone, so please stop posting it on social media websites because it's a lie. You are only ever feeling alone because you have chosen not to look on the brighter side of the situation. Stop being so god damn self absorbed and stop pittying yourself for more then two seconds to realize this and maybe you won't feel so alone.
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